Same for me. I got the one from AJ and then decided on the Etsy one as I liked the rear position better, and I was able to get the phone mount from the guy on Etsy.
It's not heated, and I got it from ebay. It has the paddle shifters, but you will need the harness from a Raptor wheel that has them. It does not come with the harness. I ended up buying a Raptor wheel, robbed the harness and will put that wheel up for sale.
I am so glad that I found this thread. After reading through all of the information, I ordered the rotary shifter and the steering wheel. I got it all installed today and love how it turned out. Now, I am just waiting on Boosted GreyGoose to have more paddle shifter harnesses available so that I...