2018 Ford F150 lariat tailgate main connector wiring

[daniel18fordf150xltupgrad]

I bought a wiring harness to add LED lights, JL3Z-13A409-c This is the part number for the, but one connector that goes to the tailgate does not fit, and the colors are different from my original that’s in the tailgate, it has nine wires, but the new one has 12 wires in all different colors. I need to match them up, but I won’t be using three wires.
All I need is the lock actuator, the backup camera, and that small light on the handle.
Does anyone know where I can even find a wiring diagram? I’ve been looking everywhere. I don’t know why Ford does not offer it. I will end up cutting my old one and slicing it, but I need to know where the wires go. Can anybody help me?
I put a picture of the new one and a picture of the old female side.

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[daniel18fordf150xltupgrad]

I know where all the wires go on my old connector, I took apart the tailgate and matched all the wires.